I have red hair. Do you?
My hair is brown.  And grey, unfortunately.
My hair is like an autumn red but my sister's is red-orange.
Are you both natural redheads?  My sister went blonde for a while but we both have dark hair naturally.
Yes it is common in fair skin like ours and blue eyes like ours.
I've thought about doing a crazy color like purple.  Have you ever considered coloring your hair?
Maybe when it's gray.
I hope you have plenty of time before the grays show up!