Hi, are you a parent?
Yes i am and Parenting is not easy.  Dealing with the physical, social, emothional, and intellect5ual development of another human being is a daunting task.
For sure. How many kids do you have?
I only have 1, or you could say 51 if you count the friends that are constantly at our house. Each child has a unique trajectory of their development, and it is sometimes hard to adjust to that.
My husband and I actually have 12 kids, and each one is such an individual.  
The government should have a part in your child's development, so that you could have some time to yourself.
Oh, no, we don't need the government to help us! I mean, aside from public schools, which we help pay for, as taxpayers.  
It sounds like you have excellent parenting skills.  I would refer to you as a "good parent".  I am in awe of you.
We do our best. I'm sure we are making some mistakes along the way, but they are good kids.  My husband and I were each widowed before, so this is a blended family of 10 kids, and then we adopted 2 more special needs kids.
You are good enough.  I suppose the older children help take care of the younger ones.