I am lusting after the Cabana boy, what should I do?
You should try to meet one performing his duties at a hotel swimming pool.
that is a good idea, it is just that I am already in a relationship, but my heart has been drawn to him.
Well, that's understandable. His job is to offer services to guests after all.
I guess it is his service that I am after, I just don't want anyone to get hurt in the pursuit of the Cabana boy.
Follow your heart. I'm sure you know what adventures a cabana boy can take you on.
Very true, love and lust are different sides of the same coin, and both hold their own adventures.
That said, a good, stable relationship is worth a thousand cabana boys.
I think the reality is that I prefer the hunt, stability is complacency, but it is also starting to seem like it is happiness. 
There are different strokes for different folks, I guess.