I have an Apple Iphone 7.  Do you have a smartphone?
My wife has an iPhone 8, it's insane that the 1st generation iPhone came out in 2007.
I did not get my first Iphone until 2015.   I was strictly an android user before.  I find the Apple interface much easier to navigate.
I was the opposite, I had an android and decided to give iPhone a try and ended up going back. I download a lot of music so I like being able to do it right to my phone, and I don't dig the iOS apple runs.
I usually use streaming music sites to listen to music, such as Spotify and Youtube.  I have never used Apple music.  What other things do you like about the android software?
I am a google fanboy and it was bought in 2005 by Google, and its just way more customization, I like to be in control of my device.  
I have heard that.  The software updates are pretty annoying but I do like how easy it is to repair your phone through Apple.
Yeah I do like the way they are marketed by Apple though but I definitely have noticed that they purposefully slow down their phones.
That is understandable.  My first phone was a Nokia Brick phone that I played a lot of Snake on
Nokia is a Finnish cell company that really knows how to make a reliable phone, not to mention they've been making phones since 1865.