Hi, I have never had much luck with romance have you?
Generally, I have had what I would consider average luck.
For me I do well with having an emotional attraction to other people, but quirks and small problems always arise.
Are you OCD or suffer from social anxiety?  That can sometimes cause problems in relationships.
I don't think I have either of those conditions. They say romance is associated with sexual attraction but does not make it mandatory.
I suppose those two do not have to be be always related
I guess so as well. It's all quite confusing to me, but I do know the term romance comes from the medieval concept of chivalry.
Hence the term romance novels.  The romantic era.