Do you attend Germantown church?
No church of God. It is a sister church to Pentecostal. 
Oh yeah, I've heard of COGIC. Thats a great church did you attend the convocation in November?
No I do not really do any events or conventions with the larger church and focus on local things here in Memphis. 
So your focus is the same: Sincerity, softness and Strength? Do you help out at the homelss shelters?
Yeah I guess it is lol. I do I help with my local soup kitchen and we do clothing drives. Do you have any tips on how to make that more efficient? 
Actually I do: greet them and treat them as an equal, ask if they would like to vollenteer after they are done eating. Also, ask them if there is anything else they need like underwear, clothes, sleeping bags.
That's a great idea asking if they would like to help out after they are done eating. That would be a great way to get to know people better. 
Yeah and also ask them questions about themselves, their past...things they use to enjoy.
I am sure that they still have things they enjoy. Probably no reason for that to be past tense lol.